25k is alot of money, but it definately could be worse. I competely understand you not wanting to tell your husband... however... he will be even more upset if he dosn't find out until it is too late. If I were you, I would tell him. You can't hide it forever and maybe he knows something that might help. In the mean time, focus not on what you can't do... but what you CAN do. Do you have any talents or trades that might bring in money? Do you like to sew or paint or something, anything at all? Make a list and see what you can do with it, if you have internet (which you must to write this) you have many many resources to make money, even if it isn't alot. Sell a craft on ebay,... write greeting cards for small company. Other then that, see about what jobs you might find without transportation.. paper delivery? A local conveinent store ect. Check your local paper for help wanted ads or even ideas. Lastly, take care of yourself. Eat, sleep and take a walk outside or meditate if you have to. You cannot remedy your situation if you are weak and sick and cause MORE bills. Good luck!

That is really a tough situation, even if you sell your home and rent an apartment (depending on where you live) you will be paying that much or more for a much smaller living space that you do not own. The best advice I can give you is to research FHA and see if you can get any help. I know they work with fisrt time home buyers and actively work to keep people from having to forclose their homes. Other then that perhaps you can rent a portion or all of the home for a short time. Either rent a spare room, or see if you can temporarily move in with family or friends and rent out your home, the rental cost will pay your mortgage payments and you can save up your paychecks to help pay off the rest. Best of luck! If you need help finding more info on FHA send me a message!

Your situation sounds just like mine! I moved out young and then wanted to attend school, unfortunately for you and I we are under 25, unmarried and no children and therefore we are kind of placed in limbo. Even though we pay our own bills, and rent our own living space our incomes still will have to be reported with that of our parents (no as independants) and therefore we are only eligable for a portion of what we would be otherwise and no grants =( As far as paying for your housing and costs.... good luck! Since then I have been working two jobs (one full time and one part time) to pay my bills, you really have to budget and pinch pennies, it isn't going to be easy but if you work really hard and focus on your goals you can do it. As much as you want to live with your boyfriend I would highly suggest staying in a dorm if possible (it is cheaper). Between apartment costs, electricity, gas to and from locations and household needs.... it is going to eat up all your money. You should focus one what is most important, finishing your schooling so you can get a better job to afford the lifestyle you want. I urge you not to fall into the same hole I am in.... it is four years later and I am still working two jobs (in retail) and I am miserable =(